A Project of Anglicans for Life and Priests for Life

Resources for Help After Abortion

As people who have personal experience with abortion, we know this can be a difficult issue to deal with. We applaud your courage for recognizing that your feelings associated with an abortion(s) deserve attention and need to be addressed. Our goal here is to connect you with the people and programs that can help you unravel and understand your feelings and behavior related to your experience.

If the trauma of your abortion is causing you such pain that suicidal thoughts and ideas are on your mind please contact www.suicidehotlines.com or call 1-800-784-2433.  You're not alone in your pain and we want to help you.

We have gone through some of the programs listed below, others have been recommended to us by folks like you. The two elements all the programs have in common is that; one, they will empower and impact your life in many great ways – in a sense if you work the programs earnestly, they can help you be set free from the negative feelings and behavior you feel from your abortion. Second, all the people involved care deeply about you, most often they are women and men who have taken time out of their lives to go through training to be properly prepared to help you and do their ministry as volunteers.

Before you begin visiting the websites below, we recommend that you read the outstanding information written by Leslie Graves.  It will provide a great overview to help you understand all your options.

As the co-founders of the Silent No More Awareness Campaign, our desire is to see you make peace with yourself, your child(ren), God and others. Our prayer is that the aftercare program you go through will help you know just how much God loves you and wants the best for you and your loved ones.

Blessings from, Georgette & Janet

How do you know you need healing?

Support and Recovery Groups

Books

DVDs

CDs

Upcoming Abortion After-Care Opportunities

Support and Recovery Groups

 

National

Men’s Support & Recovery

Local

CA

CT

  • A Choice to Heal
    Individual Counseling and Healing Workshops
    P.O. Box 674
    Colchester, CT. 06415
    860-267-6393
    www.achoicetoheal.com

FL

MA

  • Hope Rising Post-Abortion Ministry, Inc
    Contact Susanna Brennan or Joanne McDuffee.
    PO Box 158, Boston , MA 02128 , 617-953-4891
    www.hoperisingministry.org 

NY (Tri-State area)

OH

  • Bethesda, The House of Mercy
    Provides a community of healing and a sanctuary of hope for persons wounded by abortion.   Contact
    The Community of Jesus, the Living Mercy
    P.O. Box 274
    Avon, OH 44011
    (440) 777-3141
    1-800-482-4100
    www.bethesdathehouseofmercy.org
  • Bethesda Healing Ministry
    St. Margaret of Cortona Catholic Church
    1600 N. Hague Ave.
    Columbus, OH 43204
    (614) 309-2651
    (614) 718-0277
    www.BethesdaHealing.org  

SC

  • Piedmont Women's Center
    PO Box 26866
    Greenville, SC 29616
    Heather Bryan, ARA Administrator
    864-244-1434
  • AbortionRecoveryAssistance Training Institute
    Providing abortion recovery assistance to men and women who suffer from the trauma of abortion through the facilitated small group Bible studies, Forgiven and Set Free, and Healing a Father’s Heart by Linda Cochrane. Providing consulting services to post abortion ministries and an annual training institute held in Greenville, South Carolina. The AbortionRecoveryAssistance Training Institute will prepare you to develop or improve your post abortion ministry. It will provide step by step guidance for practical integration and application of the leader’s manual, Facilitating Biblical Healing, with the Bible study, Forgiven and Set Free. Judy Cooter and Jeannie Stoner have co-directed AbortionRecoveryAssistance since the founding of Piedmont Women's Center in 1991. Along with Carolyn Rice they co-authored the Facilitating Biblical Healing manual. The AbortionRecoveryAssistance Training Institute is instructed by Judy Cooter, Jeannie Stoner, and Linda Cochrane. Register online NOW at www.piedmontwomenscenter.org/institute

    A ministry of Piedmont Women's Center
    P.O. Box 26866
    Greenville, SC 29616
    864-244-1434

International

Website Resources about Abortion Aftermath

Recommended Books

  • You're Not Alone: Healing Through God's Grace After Abortion
    This book is written by Silent No More Awareness Campaign’s national spokesperson, Jennifer O’Neill. It shares her abortion pain, as well as the stories of other women and gives a great description of the Campaign’s first national Gathering in Washington DC, 2003. We highly recommend this book.
    by Jennifer O'Neill
    ISBN: 0757301681
    Published by: Faith Communications
    www.JenniferOneill.com
    $18.00

Recommended Reading for Someone Wanting to Address Post-Abortion Ministry in Churches:

  • Building Bridges
    By Mary Comm
    ISBN Number 978-1-60037-410-4
    Published by: Morgan James Publishing, LLC, 1225 Franklin Ave., Ste. 325, Garden City, NY, 11530-1693
    Toll Free 800-485-4943
    www.MorganJamesPublishing.com
    $12.95
  • Secret Sin
    by Mary Comm
    ISBN Number: 1600371485
    Published by: Morgan James Publishing, LLC, 1225 Franklin Ave., Ste. 325, Garden City, NY, 11530-1693
    Toll Free 800-485-4943
    www.MorganJamesPublishing.com
    $12.95

Recommended reading for someone seeking healing:

  • A Solitary Sorrow
    by Teri Reisser, M.S., M.F.T with Paul Reisser, M.D.
    ISBN Number: 0-87788-774-8
    Published by: WaterBrook Press, 2375 Telstar Dr., Suite 160, Colorado Springs, CO 80920
    $11.99
  • Abortion & Healing, A Cry To Be Whole
    by Fr. Michael T. Mannion
    ISBN Number: 0-934134-35-9
    Published by: Sheed & Ward, 115 E. Armour Blvd., PO Box 419492, Kansas City, MO 64141, 1-800-333-7373
  • Abortion Recovery Facilitator Guidebook and My Abortion Guilt, Grief and Shame Is Ending Soon.
    by Victims Of Choice, Inc.
    Order through www.victimsofchoice.org 
    A guidebook for those desiring to address the pain of abortion in women using a one-on-one, Christian, Therapy Model.. The guidebook is both a training tool and the recovery program. On site training is available by Victims Of Choice.
  • Forgiven and Set Free
    by Linda Cochrane
    ISBN Number: 0-8010-5723-X
    Published by: Baker Books, PO Box 6287, Grand Rapids, MI 49516-6287
    www.bakerbooks.com
    $8.99
  • Healing a Father's Heart
    by Linda Cochrane and Kathy Jones
    ISBN Number: 0-8010-5722-1
    Published by: Baker Books, PO Box 6287, Grand Rapids, MI 49516-6287
    www.bakerbooks.com
    $9.99
  • Her Choice to Heal
    by Sydna Masse
    Publisher: Chariot Victor Publishing (November 1998)
    ISBN-10: 1564767345
    ISBN-13: 978-1564767349
    www.amazon.com
  • I'll Hold You in Heaven
    by Jack Hayford
    ISBN Number: 0-8307-3259-4
    Published by: Gospel Light Worldwide, PO Box 3875, Ventura, CA, 93006, 1-800-4-Gospel
    www.regalbooks.com
  • I'll Hold You in Heaven Remembrance Book
    By Debbie Heydrick
    ISBN Number: 0-8307-3260-8
    Published by: Gospel Light Worldwide, PO Box 3875, Ventura, CA, 93006, 1-800-4-Gospel
    www.regalbooks.com
  • Into The Light
    by Nicole W. Cooley
    ISBN Number: 978-1-4141-1064-6
    Published by: Pleasant Word (a division of Wine Press Publishing, PO Box 428, Enumclaw, WA 98022)
    Georgette Forney wrote the forward for the book, Into The Light. This is what she had to say about it: Into The Light is an incredibly courageous book. Nicole’s willingness to honestly discuss rape, abortion, pornography addiction and many other painful experiences is a testimony of God’s strength working in broken people. Every person who reads this book can connect with some part of her story and learn as Nicole did more about God’s healing grace. I strongly recommend this book for everyone; it teaches us to have more compassion for one another and encourages us to face our traumas.
    www.pleasantword.com
  • Life After Abortion - Healing Leadership Guide Video and Workbook/Guide.
    by Jennifer O'Neill
    www.JenniferOneill.com
  • Redeeming a Father's Heart
    by Kevin Burke, LSW, David Wemhoff & Marvin Stockwell
    ISBN Number: 9781434313676
    $12.95
  • SaveOne: A Guide to Emotional Healing After Abortion
    by Sheila Harper
    ISBN Number: 0-9742051-0-9
    Published by: SaveOne, 1-866-329-3571
    SaveOneInc@aol.com
    www.saveone.org
    $16.00
  • The Four Steps to Healing-Non-Denominational Edition
    By Martha Shuping, M.D. and Debbie McDaniel, M.A. LPC
    ISBN-13:  978-0972876940
    Published by:  Tabor Garden Press
    Order single copies from  www.amazon.com for $12.99.
    Order a single copy or inquire about a quantity discount for multiple copies through http://postabortionhealing.net

    If you or someone you care about has experienced the pain of unresolved grief after abortion, you know how hard it can be to find help.  Magazines and talk shows offer advice on nearly every topic, yet it’s rare to see a headline for post-abortion recovery.  The Four Steps to Healing sheds new light on an issue that has touched the lives of many but is talked about by few.  The myth of abortion as a “selfish” choice is dispelled here by illustrations of women who chose abortion out of concern for everyone’s need but their own.  Many who suffer from post-abortion grief are, in fact, caring nurturers, helpers by nature who take spiritual matters seriously.  To address the specific needs of those who ling to reconnect and go further in their faith, The Four Steps to Healing is available in both Catholic and non-denominational versions.  Filled with practical suggestions, prayers and stories of hope, it is a resource for those who want to be healed and for those who want help.

  • The Four Steps to Healing-Catholic Edition
    by Martha Shuping, M.D. and Debbie McDaniel, M.A. LPC
    ISBN-13:  978-0972876926
    Published by :  Tabor Garden Press
    Order single copies from www.Amazon.com for $12.99.
    Order a single copy or inquire about a quantity discount  for multiple copies through http://postabortionhealing.net.

Recommended reading for someone looking for more information on affects of abortion:

  • Aborted Women Silent No More
    by David C. Reardon
    ISBN Number: 0-9648957-2-2
    Published by: Acorn Books, PO Box 7348, Springfield, IL 62791-7348, 1-888-41-ACORN
    www.afterabortion.org
    $24.95
  • Abortion Survivors
    by Dr. Philip G. Ney
    ISBN Number: 0-920952-11-9
    Published by: Pioneer Publishing Company, Ltd., PO Box 27103, 750 Goldstream Ave., Victoria, BC, CANADA, V9B 5S4
    www.messengers2.com/pioneer
    $5.00
  • Deeply Damaged
    by Dr. Philip G. Ney
    ISBN Number: 0-920952-10-0
    Published by: Pioneer Publishing Company, Ltd., PO Box 27103, 750 Goldstream Ave., Victoria, BC, CANADA, V9B 5S4
    www.messengers2.com/pioneer
    $19.95
  • Detrimental Effects of Abortion An Annotated Bibliography with Commentary
    by Thomas W. Strahan
    ISBN Number: 0-9648957-0-6
    Published by: Acorn Books, PO Box 7348, Springfield, IL62791-7348, 1-888-41-ACORN
    www.afterabortion.org
    $34.95
  • Fatherhood Aborted
    Guy Condon and David Hazard
    ISBN Number: 0-8423-5423-9
    Published by: Tyndale House Publishers, Inc., Wheaton, IL
    www.tyndale.com 
    $12.00
  • Forbidden Grief
    by Dr. Theresa Burke
    ISBN Number: 0-9648957-8-1
    Published by: Acorn Books, PO Box 7348, Springfield, IL62791-7348, 1-888-41-ACORN
    www.ForbiddenGrief.com
    $24.95
  • How To Talk With Your Children About Your Abortion
    by Dr. Philip G. Ney
    ISBN Number: 0-920952-12-7
    Published by: Pioneer Publishing Company, Ltd., PO Box 27103, 750 Goldstream Ave., Victoria, BC, CANADA, V9B 5S4
    www.messengers2.com/pioneer
    $5.00
  • Men and Abortion
    by C.T. Coyle, PhD.
    ISBN Number: 1-894169-87-5
    Published by: Essence Publishing, 44 Moira St. West, Belleville, Ontario, Canada K8P 1S3, 1-800 238-6376
    www.essence.on.ca
    Distributed By: Life Cycle Books, PO Box 561, Fort Collins, CO, 80522-0561, 1-800-214-5849
    www.lifecyclebooks.com
    $14.95
  • Post-Abortion Aftermath, Writings Generated by Various Experts at a Post-Abortion Summit Conference
    edited by Fr. Michael T. Mannion
    ISBN Number: 1-55612-708-1
    Published by: Sheed & Ward, 115 E. Armour Blvd., PO Box 419492, Kansas City, MO 64141, 1-800-333-7373
  • Psycho-Spiritual Healing After Abortion
    by Douglas R. Crawford and Fr. Michael T. Mannion
    ISBN Number: 1-55612-246-2
    Published by: Sheed & Ward, 115 E. Armour Blvd., PO Box 419492, Kansas City, MO 64141, 1-800-333-7373
  • Victims and Victors, Speaking Out About Their Pregnancies, Abortions, and Children Resulting from Sexual Assault
    edited by David C. Reardon, Julie Makimaa, and Amy Sobie
    ISBN Number: 0-9648957-1-4
    Published by: Acorn Books, PO Box 7348, Springfield, IL62791-7348, 1-888-41-ACORN
    www.afterabortion.org
    $11.95
  • Women's Health after Abortion, The Medical and Psychological Evidence
    by Elizabeth Ring-Cassidy, Ian Gentles
    ISBN Number: 0-920453-22-8
    Published by: The deVeber Institute for Bioethics and Social Research, 3089 Bathurst St., Suite 316, Toronto, Ontario, Canada M6A 2A
    www.deveber.org
    $19.95

Recommended reading for someone seeking fictional stories:

  • Forgiven Much
    by Leslie T. Dean
    ISBN 1 60034 749 5
    This novel brings to life the Mary Magdalene you have never met. Dean imagines Mary’s life as one of desperate hopelessness woven with stories of the bible and shows us how to live a life of biblical purity regardless of our past.
  • Heart of Stone
    by Mia Vanduran
    ISBN 1 59781 146 7
    In this novel, we meet Samantha, a recovering alcoholic dealing with the reality of post-abortive stress. She is sorry for the choice she made and knows that while God forgives her, Aaron Eagle, a Lakota and her ex-fiancé might not. Years earlier, Samantha aborted Aaron's baby without telling him she was pregnant. Now, years later we learn that they still have feelings for each other and find that there is healing in forgiveness.
  • If You Were Mine
    by Cynthia Scott Hutchinson
    ISBN 1 4259 3777 2
    As you read this fictional story, you will come to care for Jenny as she deals with a very real and very painful consequence of having an abortion as a college student. It is a love story turned tragic that delivers hope for Jenny and for the millions of others who have lived through their own heartache and despair.

Recommended reading for someone seeking abortion testimonies:

  • Forgiven: Finding Peace in the Aftermath of Abortion
    by Christina Ryan Claypool
    ISBN Number: 0-7880-2112-5
    Published by: New Creation Ministries
    Order at Amazon
  • From Fallen To Forgiven
    by Jennifer O'Neill
    ISBN Number: 0-8499-1715-8
    www.JenniferOneill.com 
    $22.00
  • Real Abortion Stories
    Edited by Barbara Horak
    www.realabortionstories.com
  • Silent No More
    by Sister Anne Sophie
    ISBN 1 57918 269 0
    Sister Sophie is our Regional Coordinator in Corpus Christi, Texas.  In her book, she shares her powerful testimony that will help you find the courage to stand as a witness to a world in need of the Gospel of Life.
  • Surviving Myself
    ISBN Number: 0-688-15992-3
    www.JenniferOneill.com
    $24.00
  • You Aren't Alone, The Voices of Abortion
    by Peggy Kirk, M.A.
    ISBN 1-57733-113-3
    Published by: Blue Dolphin Publishing, P.O. Box 8, Nevada City, CA 95959, 1-800-643-0765
    $16.95

Recommended DVDs

  • Silent No More Awareness Campaign presents,
    The Truth about Abortion: Experience vs. Rhetoric,
    by The Silent No More Awareness Campaign
    Produced in house and can be purchased through the Campaign www.SilentNoMoreAwareness.org
    $10.00
  • Tilly
    produced by Anchor Educational Foundation
    can be purchased through Heritage House at www.HertiageHouse76.com
    $24.99

Recommended CDs

  • We Can Change the World
    Produced by Trish Short for Artists for Life Foundation
    410-526-7497
    $15.00
    "We can change the world is blessed with haunting, memorable music and crisp, intelligent lyrics which speak from the very heart of the tragedy of the loss of a child through abortion." - Dr. Theresa Burke

  • The Choice
    One woman's journey through abortion, mourning and spiritual healing
    Project Grace - www.projectgrace.com
    $15.00

  • Healing After the Choice
    By Michael John Poirier
    The popular singer/songwriter focuses on the themes of healing and forgiveness, especially for those affected by abortion.  Includes 17 selections, total time 72 minutes. 
    www.healingafterthechoice.com
    $16.95