Abortion will ruin your life.  The facts of abortion need to be made public; young girls, young women, career women, all women need to understand that.  "Our Bodies Our Choice" is a lie.  It is never "a choice" to kill you child, under any circumstance.  When domestic violence and emotional abuse is involved, as was my case, it should be screened for by the medical community.

I was coerced into an abortion that I never wanted or intended to have.  The father of the child forced me, on a daily and hourly basis emotionally abused me, further damaged my already low self esteem, until I conceded, two days before my third trimester.  Abortion took away my innocence and it damaged my soul and took the soul and life of my unborn child.

To this day the father has never contacted me but instead, stalked, and harassed me into keeping quiet about the abortion. He does not want his clean reputation ruined as there is a long detailed history behind his own life (he was the product of an unexpected pregnancy by his mother at the age of seventeen who was forced to have an abortion by the fathers family, however she did not concede).  I have endured ten years of this; break-ins, gang-stalking, vandalism, computer hacking.  My ex joined the Masons sometime after we broke up.  He works in a management position within the BC Government in IT Security.  Unfortunately he cannot be caught; the police have been involved with little evidence to go on.  He has hacked and stalked those who have stayed close to me in my life.  I pray to God that someday this will end.  He has forced me into silence for ten years, but, I will no longer remain silent.